I've been with my man a little over 4 years and our sex life is, shall we say, tepid? Always has been. After numerous fights, discussions, and experiments, we've determined the root of our problem: sexual expression. Mr. Sparks is less experienced than me and grew up in a household where sexuality was denied, if not demonized. He has a hard time initiating, expressing wants--even being romantic. And after 4 years of what I can only describe as a DROUGHT for me, I've had enough. I'm fighting back. Consider this your walking papers, bedroom boredom. My slutty side is back and she wants everything she has coming to her.